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It’s strange, isn’t it? Disabled people are seen as both “inspiring” and “pitiful” by the same society. Two extreme reactions, yet both rooted in the same issue: ableism.
When we achieve something, even something mundane like holding a job or attending school, we’re showered with applause. “You’re so inspiring!” they say, as if existing in a disabled body and doing normal human things is extraordinary. On the other hand, when we struggle—or even just live visibly disabled lives—we’re pitied. “It’s so sad,” they say, as if our lives are inherently less valuable or fulfilling. Both responses are dehumanizing. They’re two sides of the same coin. The pedestal and the pity party both come from the belief that disability is a deviation, something that needs fixing or overcoming.
Why is this the narrative? Because society doesn’t see disabled people as people. We’re symbols—either of triumph over adversity or tragic cautionary tales. It’s easier for non-disabled people to project their fears or fantasies onto us than to engage with the messy, complex realities of disabled lives. Here’s an example. If a disabled person climbs a mountain, they’re a hero. But if the same person asks for an accessible pathway into a public building, suddenly it’s too much effort. One action fits the narrative of “overcoming disability,” while the other challenges systemic inaccessibility—a truth people would rather ignore.
Think about that. Why is a disabled person’s value tied to how much they inspire or inconvenience you? Why is their worth dictated by your comfort? Disabled people aren’t here to make you feel grateful for your own life.
We’re not here to motivate you or make you sad. We’re just living. Working, learning, loving, creating. And yes, sometimes struggling—just like everyone else.
If you want to do better, start by seeing disabled people as whole, nuanced individuals. Celebrate achievements without calling them extraordinary for just because of the disability. Offer support without pity. Push for systemic changes that make life accessible for everyone. And most importantly, listen to disabled voices. Because inspiration and pity both fail to recognize what we really are: Human
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